We all have preferences when it comes to dating and relationships. I dont really have as many deal-breakers but i would like to hear some of yours maybe i just haven't figured them all out. 1 of them is she has to be feminine, i dont think any guy would want to date a woman who doesn't act as a woman right? What are your relationship deal-breakers?
What are your relationship deal-breakers?
What Girls Said 45
Closed mindedness, arrogance, lack of education1
Liars and self centered people.1
Liars and pansies lol0
smoking, bad hygiene are the 2 main ones0
Not being honest and being a liar0
Ironically enough, a guy who wants me to be 'more feminine'.
I swear, wear combat boots, jeans, and baggy shirts. I don't like to wear makeup. Which are all things considered 'manly' along with the ever debatable not shaving.
I accept men for all that they are, I need a guy who likes me how I am.
The only other deal-breaker is emotional/physical abuse.
I'm a very caring, big hearted person, and I've only turned a guy down once who asked me out, because I knew one of my friends liked him.0
too feminine, disrespectful of my religion (I would never ask him to convert or include him in it because every has their own choices), smoking, drugs, party animal, many female friends (screams player or gay) tattoos, ignorant to others, not a fan of my dog. lying, cheating, gambler, abuser, controlling, comparing me to others, trying to change me, doesn't LISTEN (I have a soft and quiet voice but my words do not mean any less) ALL DEAL BREAKERS to me.0
If he's rude and is obnoxious and disgusting and is shorter than me.0
If he wants or already has kids (I don't ever want them). Would be ok with older kids though.
No sense of humor.
Can't stand someone who can't think for themselves, if they follow anyone/anything blindly then I just can't be attracted to that.
I don't want someone with who is super active on social media. I can't stand people who need constant attention, who think the entire world revolves around them and what they had for breakfast, who can't get off of Facebook long enough to enjoy the world around them and has to post photos and comments about every freakin thing they do.
Who doesn't like pets, I love animals and i'm always going to have them, so he would be miserable with me lol
Traditionalist would be a deal breaker for me, just not my kind of lifestyle and never will be.
He expects us to morph into the same person just because we're dating. So many people think we have to unconditionally support the person we love, whether they're right or wrong. I want someone who can tell me that i'm wrong or that they don't agree with me and here's why.
Who isn't down to earth, can't stand uppity people.
The obvious ones would be is a cheater, abusive, does drugs or has other addictions.
I don't care much about age (as long as it's not very extreme), employment, education (as long as he doesn't act stupid and trashy) or appearances, I just like normal everyday looking dudes lol
Doesn't share similar values and morals as myself
Lacks empathy and compassion towards other people
Doesn't respect my views and opinions
Can't communicate well
Isn't open and honest about himself and his life
Isn't willing to compromise
Cannot have a closed mind. If I'm going to give you some of my trust you better not fuck it up and be all critical of anything I share with you without even trying to understand first. It's not like I did anything bad, I just don't think I'm the typical girlfriend. So don't fuck with my trust.
Absolutely can't do it if you have the same name as one of my close family members just my immediate family. Sorry :/ I just couldn't sadly.0
Rude and obnoxious
Overly possessive and controlling
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What Guys Said 41
drugs and smoking.0
implants or no boobs.0
Regular smoking, can't deal with it0
flirts with everyone0
Bad tits and bum
mine are that i can think of
-smokes drinks does drugs
-is trashy has piercings tattoos etc
-too many boyfriends
-not a virgin
-is a stuck up snob
-wants my money
-expects the guy to do everything
-has a penis or was a gut a transgender
-obsesses with wanting kids
-doesnt want me going down on her (oral sex)
-over/too body conscious (complains about being fat when she's really not)
-doesnt want sex
-plays that annoying "dumb and innocent" routine unless its out of being humorous than its ok
-no sense of humor
-not feminine in my ideal way a girl should be (yes like yours)
-wears too much makeup
-is fat, overweight
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Lazy, religion , drugs , age , cheating , no sex drive and baggage that's too heavy.2
i dont have any0
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