I'm curious to hear people's opinions on this. I feel women mostly look for qualities in a guy, like success and stability, that normally just improve with time while men are more fixated on looks, fertility and motherly instincts which normally get worse over time. Wouldn't it make sense for a man to want to date someone younger and a woman to want to date someone older?
Most Helpful Girl
No they don't. I think men just tell themselves that to put down women and feel better about themselves.
Women care potential not necessarily success and stability itself.
Truth is, most men don't age well. From your 20s it's all down hill, and maybe women are accepting of a few lines and wrinkles, than men but there's only so much. At some point sexual attraction is gone and that's important to a relationship.6
Most Helpful Guy
No one considers the relative merits of different qualities and then decides what kind of person they will find attractive.2