would they be jealous if the girl was pretty? Does she secretly feel like this girl is prettier than her?
would she be jealous if her boyfriend used to have a secret crush on the other girl?
Most Helpful Guy
My ex got jealous of EVERYONE who liked me.. She even screwed up my chances with a girl..
She's still jealous about my other ex, who I spend time with.
Most Helpful Girl
I'd say not jealous but maybe insecure, espesh if their boyfriend liked them back.
But having said that... I once dated a guy briefly, only for about 6 weeks and this girl from his work posted on his fb and I thought 'oh she likes him' because you could just tell. I wasn't bothered because he was with me and not her and I never mentioned it to him.
But when we split amicably, he got into a relationship with her maybe 6 months after. I thought 'oh that's nice, I'm happy for him and also her because its cool she got with her crush' like I wasn't bothered. A couple of years later they got engaged.
But then I see this post come up on my news feed, someone has commented on his gfs page (and tagged him) and it said something about 'that bitch' he used to date. And I just thought wtf? Like it was obv meaning me and clearly she was only calling me a bitch because I happened to be dating him back when she liked him. And I felt like saying 'excuse me! but I've never met you, you don't know me and I actually got on really well with him and we had an amicable split so there's no reason you should be calling me a bitch'. I felt maybe they called me that back then (which I can understand) but the fact that they were still referring to me that way just because I happened to date her fiancé once upon a time was really childish. So who knows, maybe there was still an element of jealousy there.