My ex boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago, as we were fighting non-stop. I went to see a therapist to work on my anger.. He left his computer, tv, clothes etc at my place still & he refuses to pick them up, and still has a photo of us on fb. It was my bday a few days ago, and he messaged me to meet up. He took me for lunch and he talked about how he wants to take me on a road trip this weekend, that he will quit smoking for me, the plans of him moving back in etc. Anyways we hooked up & he slept over, he offered to drive me to work, but instead I started to talk about our relationship, he told me he wants to take things slow, and said "STOP", but I got angry and continued. He stormed out of my place, and told me that I came on too strong... I accused him of using me for sex, and he has been ignoring me for days now. IS he just playing me or was he actually interested in getting back together?
Most Helpful Guy
You sound like you have anger issues. When you have already broken up, the remains of the relationship are very fragile. He said he wanted to "take things slow" probably to figure out a way to resolve your differences and fix things.
The reason why he wanted to take things "slow" is because when you become hot-headed, things will spiral out of control into arguments and he will probably also lose the ability to think rationally. Then you two just end up on a shit-throwing contest at each other.
Considering the fragile state of your broken relationship, I question why you would get angry at him again. I would think you would show some restraint and control your anger. If there was any hope of resolution, you probably just threw it out the window, as you confirmed to him that you are not a good match with him.0
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Most Helpful Girl
No he was definitely trying to rekindle the relationship0