i am not completely introverted, im very talkative and social when im around people i know, but i hate even the idea of meeting people. i like going out and having fun but im still very one on one (like i'll come with one friend and be with them). however, my boyfriend loves meeting new people and being in crowded places and talking to strangers. this is so unusual and weird to me and makes me mad because i imagine myself being with someone who's more compatible. someone who likes to have fun but hates people as much as me. what do you all think?
Most Helpful Guy
I think that your two need to communicate more. When your tiered let him know and if he wants to stay he can get a ride or take his own car home. I have seen a lot of couples like that you two are fine. One of them gets tired and leaves while the other one stays behind till the last of the guests. There is nothing wrong with you to being different in that way. Just communicate that your out of social energy and need to go home. Aw man I saw a perfect link for this a week ago but I can't find it again. Look around google for help with this problem. I'm sure you will easily find the link that I was thinking of.
I understand your problem quite well. I'm a shy extrovert so I get along really well with the introverts and shy girls. So all of my freinds are introverts and they usually have to leave an event fairly early/I have to rally them to come to an event. I like to stay around until last call just talking and hanging around. However if I came with a freind they will make me go home early or all of my freinds will have left and I'll be with a few of the extrovert guys in the end.
Your problem is not that big of one all you and him need to do is to communicate what you want before you go. Will you need your own ride? Will you stay with him all night? Will he bring you home when you want?
Lol I so get your hatred of meeting new poeple it is a real pain. However after I get to know them fairly well I enjoy being with them and hanging out. If need be I will leave with several of my introvert freinds and we will head to a dinner and have our own small 6 person party for a while. Just us having fun.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Yes. As long as we respect each other, and don't push each other to do things we are really uncomfortable with, then I have no issue dating an extrovert. I have before, and it can be fun sometimes.1