Gosh i am really at my end here... this is probably the lowest point of my life. I am 24 years old and i literally have no one to back me up. I live with my mother and i secretly hate her because she lets my older sister who literally made everything worse still live with us at 29. I am so sad about my life, i have no friends,= due to trouble past, never had a boyfriend, i just feel like i dont feel like socializing anymore, i have nothing to bring to the table... i feel like... i am also to scared to move out on my own because i just dont know if i can handle being alone, with no friends... people will think i a weird for never having a boyfriend at 24? or sex? i feel really like an outcast... what should i do? move out or stay at home till i am done with my degree?
Most Helpful Guy
no you aren't weird for being 24 and no boyfriend.
I would not move out unless they are abusing you emotionally, mentally. I would get out of the house as much as possible so you get a different vantage point on life away form them... and build a base so you can move out. And no... I would not move in with a boyfriend... please do not mate or produce any babies right now... you are in no condition to raise them.
What you do is go to church, develop a relationship with God to rebuild your heart. there you will find some support and hear and learn about Love so you can start building it inside yourself. Others will give something but we are all imperfect. God/Jesus are perfect so go there.
Then start to develop friends as you become more healthy. Start to exercise... get into walking groups, biking groups. Start a business where you walk peoples dogs for them... lots of money, easy to do, little training required... so you start making $! And you are out of the house...
Then start praying for your mom and sister... they are lost and sick and need help as well.
Make this like a 6 -9 month plan to be better. Start tomorrow or this Saturday ok? Is this a plan you can implement or at least try? I dont' want to hear excuses... I want to hear what you can do.
Most Helpful Girl
I say finish your degree, adding the stress of living on your own, plus school while you're already experiencing depression is just pouring gasoline on a smouldering fire pit.
However, don't feel bad, and don't feel alone. We all do things at our own pace, and while it may not be the social norm, it doesn't make you less worthy or defective in comparison to someone else. I say finish up your schooling and move out, try forcing yourself to get out into the world and make a positive change, make connections with others and eventually you'll find the right people. If not, you always have online forums. Like G@G!0
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