I'm a black 17 yr old high school senior that has never been kissed , been in a relationship, or had sex. The only attention if gotten from women is a few hugs and I've been flirted with once , that's it. As a high schooler , when I go to school I see a bunch of PDA. Whenever I see PDA I I either get angry , depressed, or I cringe and think "is that ever going to be me?" If my love life is the same thing as this 15 years later , I'm actually considering suicide. Its not like I can't talk to women , I can. They just never want to have a relationship with me. Honestly when a girl puts me in the friend zone , I lose all hope. I need advice pls
Most Helpful Girl
Try being 24 going on 25 this year and bring both romantically and sexually frustrated. Lol. I know I'm still a pup at my age but your an even younger pup at only 17. You've got plenty of time to find a girl. Put it this way some women put guys into the friend zone and they keep them their. But there are women who do the same thing but consider relationships with their male friends, as an easier option because they don't have to go back to square one and get to know them better as they already are familiar with them and know basically most things or everything they need to know about you.1
Most Helpful Guy
I have AWESOME NEWS for you. GOOD Black Men are in DEMAND. YOU have the odds in your favor. Play the "long game". Keep yourself out of trouble. Go to College and Major in a STEMM Degree (Science, Technology, Engineering, Math, Medicine). There is a surplus of educated Black Women that are desperate for a good educated Black Man. Go to Google. Search on "cannot find good black man". Oprah Winfrey has done several shows on this. Here is a link to one of them...