My boyfriend wants to kiss and I don't want to. I stood up to him but I don't think he gets it and now I think I stopped liking him. What do I do, please help!
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Think about how he know/treated before he asked you out. Did you meet mainly at dances, where he saw you grinding? Did he see you acting like a slut on stage? Basically, did he see you acting in a way you usually don't? If yes, then your relationship will probably go sour quickly, since he doesn't want to go out with you for the real you.
If not, think about it. Does he know you well enough to understand your (admittedly unusual--grudging points for him) point of view on kissing? If he does, why does he keep pressuring you?
Although you've said that you stood up to him about it, you sound like a shy-enough girl that your idea of 'stood up to him' might not seem very assertive to him. If you think this relationship is worth it, you should calmly explain to him that you don't feel ready for this kind of stuff yet. If he wants to stay with you, you'll tell him when you feel ready.0