first he said he wanted a break to benefit the both of us, we were fighting and he said he was too emotionally attached. Then he said he doesn't want to hang out at all anymore? he said we can still text and stuff but he is no longer going to hanging out with me. Does he mean this? Is he just saying he doesn't want to hang out because he wants to be able to "detach" himself, or does he really mean it and he's done? Every time we need a break and say we are done, whenever we hang out again and we work things out, I feel like he's trying to be strong and make it easier on him but I could be wrong?
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Well, maybe he is fed up of all the arguments and fights and really does'nt want anything more. .maybe he's like one of those abnormal guys(sorry, am saying that my ex was like that too), some guys like attention so they do such things so that the girl would stop them and try to fix things. .both of you fix things together whenever ur not hanging out or one of u? I dun think people need a ''break'' in a relationship and later they can come back when they feel for it. .but what about ur feelings? whenever he says that ''i'm not gonna hangout with u'', does'nt he hurt u? sorry if I am rude but I am just letting you see. .u have to deciede that you want a normal guy or abnormal? and he can only answer this if he really means that, maybe he means that or maybe he said it because he was angry!
best of luck! :)0
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