I notice a few attractive women my boyfriend follows on IG. These are women he knows (local). Any pic they post of their face, he likes it. If it's some random pic, he doesn't. Go figure. I wouldn't have an issue if these were some unattainable people like models or something. But I feel like he's trying to get their attention. We have only been dating for 4 months so I don't want to ruin the relationship by bringing it up but it bothers me. :( is this somewhat normal for guys to do? Does it not necessarily mean anything?
Most Helpful Guy
I know guys like that, and they tell you that you are the only one, and yet he likes others, and plays around. . . Maybe?
I would SERIOUSLY consider if you want to stay with him!! If he is looking at others, then you aren't his "One and Only' and I don't think you want to just be some 'second choice'!
If I am with someone I honestly care about, and really like, I don't follow others, unless they are REAL 'friends', and I usually introduce her to them, so she knows we are JUST FRIENDS, so she feels OK with me liking them, and chatting with them, KNOWING that there is NOTHING between my 'friends' and Me!
Do you TRUST him? Is the question you need to ask yourself!7
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Most Helpful Girl
You're 41 years old.
I am guessing he's around your age or even older.
You both are grown adults and know what you want out of life... this IG crap is petty.
You know he cares for you... he's with YOU and not them.
A picture like is just a like.
I wish couples would stop paying so much attention to social media.. it really breaks up more relationships than it should.5