Most Helpful Guy
I know guys like that, and they tell you that you are the only one, and yet he likes others, and plays around. . . Maybe?
I would SERIOUSLY consider if you want to stay with him!! If he is looking at others, then you aren't his "One and Only' and I don't think you want to just be some 'second choice'!
If I am with someone I honestly care about, and really like, I don't follow others, unless they are REAL 'friends', and I usually introduce her to them, so she knows we are JUST FRIENDS, so she feels OK with me liking them, and chatting with them, KNOWING that there is NOTHING between my 'friends' and Me!
Do you TRUST him? Is the question you need to ask yourself!
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Most Helpful Girl
I agree with the people so far that have said it is normal and does not necessarily mean anything.
I can relate to the idea that you do not like that it is especially with women that he knows. I understand the "being OK with him finding a super model hot but not with knowing he finds my best friend hot" thing. lol! That is a little intimidating to me, I must admit. However, I think that he only does it with people he knows and not some random chicks on the internet is a good thing and not a bad thing.
I think with your past experience you will need to be extra wary of seeing red flags when there may not be any. It is always good to take a step back and re-evaluate before questioning someone. This site seems like a good place to do that.
Congrats on your new relationship. I hope it continues to grow and bring you joy. Nice meeting ya'. :)