I dated thus guy for 5months and I fell in love with him. He did evertything for me and last month told me that he fell in love with me. But now he ended it because he's 'not ready' for a relationship and because everything is moving too fast. He blocked me everywhere and yesterday posted a picture on instagram with another girl, which he knows I don't like. How can he just fall out of love, simply because he isn't ready? Love doesn't just fade away over night.. and take into consideration that he truly did (does?) care for me. Thanks :)
Most Helpful Guy
There can be many reasons for that:
1. Their own insecurities, I mean you may not be doing anything to make them insecure but they start getting insecure because they are very attached to you.
2. Common reason, they are afraid of getting hurt.
3. They might think that one day you may like someone else, love someone else and may cheat on them.
Yes, you're right. Love doesn't fade away overnight, I mean it shouldn't fade away but it's also true that people can fall out of love in a relationship and so love can fade away also.1
Most Helpful Girl
Many Toms Today get what I Always refer to a s"Cold Duck Feet" when things are Seemingly Going way too fast and Suddenly... Not such a Blast. They then Distance themselves, maybe even Disappear into the Murky waters from which They have come from and Then... He blocked me everywhere.
I find that the Guy you had Been with for '5 months,' Got more than Duck Feet but Dick Feet in this Defeat.
However, from now On... Buyer Beware here, dear. Don't be so Quick to Wear your Heart at First on your Sleeve, Should he Leave.
let this Little Lesson in Love and in Life be one that you will Learn By and cry by.
Good luck and Hoping you Feel better Soon.. You deserve Better. xx
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