We went couple of dates everything was great but she was confused not sure if i want her as a girlfriend or just having fun (same as me) then she ask me and we i said i am interested in her inviting her to a date it was short date due to time and around a lot of people so i didn't feel alright to make move cuz it may make her nervous and i am too shy.. the next day i went to her party before she is going to year of service and it was in another city so i had to sleep there with other friends at her house. so we did we saw movie and she and her close friend nothing romantically started to touch each other on hands and a mix of tiredness alcohol and pressure made it worst for me ask her to talk outside but to much pressure of the situation and couldn't tell her anything.. she was a bit panicked because how i act my heart rate increase and i was stressed af.. finally i talk and tell it about how i feel and i got feeling for her and what there both doing.. she said nothing happen between us and i didn't make a move she wished for she said next time just do it with a girl..
she said we can be friends and if she will have events she will invite me and more but i doesn't felt like this and instead of sleep there i went home at the first opportunity i had because couldn't actually sleep.. now we dont talk i wished her good luck and text her i went home because couldn't sleep.. i am really dissapointed still thinking about it make me sad and i want to fix it if it can be fixed
Most Helpful Girl
You should move on. She lost her interest. Stop contacting her and start dating other girls.0
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think that it can be fixed because even though you like her she told you that she is not interested in a relationship which you can't really change.
If you would want to get over her I would suggest not coming to events that she invites you to because it will speed up the process.
Hope I helped! :)0
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