Did you ever get your happy ending?
Most Helpful Guy
Actually it's funny...
I suck at meeting women in real life. So... I tried online dating. I tried Tinder numerous times and never got anywhere, so I was about to shut it down. However... I matched with this one girl:
-She fit the description of what I was looking for physically
-Based on her bio, she fit the description of what I looking for in regards to personality
-She also fit the description of what I wanted mentally in a woman (educated, motivated, etc.,).
I decided to talk to her, but didn't think it would get anywhere. One thing led to another and we went on a date.
Now... I went on a lot of dates that past year... but with her... there was instant chemistry. Like... we had a lot to talk about, there was never a silent moment, we had fun together and we kept talking about spending more time together in the future. We started kissing as well... like it just happened... and I'm pretty sure we would of had sex that night also... if I didn't have to work early the next day... lol. That is how much chemistry we had with each other.
Anyway... After our date, she disclosed to me that she was only here for the summer and she had to go back to to school in California (I live in TX). She said she was visiting her mom and brother here.
After she went back to Cali... we kept in contact daily... but since we didn't actually see each other anymore... our conversations eventually died and I stopped talking to her... and she never did come back to Texas.
That was a year ago.
I've been dating new women ever since, but it hasn't been the same. Ever since I met her, I've also been keeping tabs on her (Facebook) trying to see if she would ever come back to Texas... but she has never come back. She recently finished college... but she still hasn't come back yet.0
Most Helpful Girl
Meh in hoping this is the case, I mean with a happy ending but I'm just not sure. I met this guy online and we really hit it off.. I was really looking forward to starting something.. And maybe I got too excited too early, but it just not going to start or happen now. I go back to college in a few weeks and I'll be beyond busy. He is going out of town through October with his band and he works almost every day now to support himself when he does. He has no time for me or to think of starting anything, and I'm just really sad about it all. If he isn't working, he's playing at random bars or shows, if he isn't working or playing, he's doing some kind of drug. Whatever place he's at right now, he doesn't want anything serious with a girl and it just sucks because he shouldn't have started talking to me in the first place. Now he's gone MIA, and I just have to move on. Maybe once his life settles down or he gets off those drugs we can revisit this... But honestly I'm not too optimistic about it at all.0