Me and my boyfriend have been going out since 6months. And share a great bond. The only problem being that I have to pay bills everytime cuz he never carried enough cash. Forget about "splitting" then. I end up paying for the whole date. Friends talk about how their boyfriend pays for every single thing. But here. The scenario is totally upside down. Also I can't directly discuss such things with him. Help me out!!
Most Helpful Guy
Lol be open to him or go broke. A man shouldn't do that 50-50 is fine by me but 100% by my girl no fucking way that is not cool at all. Just one time dont carry cash tell him you forgot and ask him to spend some for a chanhe1
Most Helpful Girl
"I need help, but I can't talk to him about it."
I hate it when people do this. If you're "not able" to discuss the issue and resolve it, how exactly is anybody supposed to help you?
The only real way to fix the issue is to address it, regardless of if he gets upset about it. You need to tell him that if he can't afford to split the bill (or keeps "forgetting") then the two of you aren't going out anymore. Or if it really is him "forgetting", ask him before you go anywhere if he has the cash, and make him double check.0