We've been broken up for 3 weeks but been in nc for almost 2. She never gave off any kind of impression she wasn't happy. She told me she is not interested in anyone else. We had sex after the break up and went on a date. She is really confused. I want to give her time and space and then reach out to her. She seems really confused.
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Just because Two people Break up Doesn't mean they Can't and Don't Make up and that it's Good-bye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who still Marks an X in your own Softie Spot, there Might come a Day when along the Way, she comes Back To... She is really Confused.
It appears with you both, that No one has Moved on here, dear. She may in the Beginning, have given Some Signs, but you May have "Overlooked" them with her Putting on a Happy Face in its Place to Make you Happy.
Now that you are Apart, and still in each others' Heart, so it Looks Like, Continue to 'Give her time and space' and with no Pushing, she just might Cave and Realize that she is Missing the Kissing and the His and Her History you Both Shared.
At the moment, she is Having her Cake and Eating it Two, by Being with You and at the same Time, being Free to Spread her Wings like this Free bird. Only Time and Mother Nature will really Know how it will End up, but One thing you don't Want, and maybe she has Thought this Through, and 'Confused' when you both Slept together after 'We had sex after the breakup,' is a Friends with benefits,' and it Doesn't suit her Well, I can Tell. She may not Know what to even Call you both Now Somehow.
Perhaps it is Best from the Rest to let it 'Rest' for awhile with 'ns,' which is "No Sex." This way, you may even look like this Juicy apple way at the Top of the Tree that is Hardest to Get and to Grab.
Good luck and Always keep Open Lines of Convo open. xx
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