Especially if all three of you are standing there and it's not a "blind" set up.
Had it happen to me last night, but luckily the dude picked up on how not very interested I was in him and things didn't get too awkward.
plus beer so all was forgotten rather quickly 👌🏻
Most Helpful Guy
It really depends who they try to set me up with and how the person tries to set you up.
This one girl tried setting me up with a girl I totally wasn't into and the girl was hitting on me, kissing me on the cheek, etc and that was very awkward.
Another time, the same girl tried setting me up with her friends. She was decent looking but the one who tried setting me up was getting way too ahead. She's like you guys are gonna be a great couple, you'll thank me later.
I was like wtf, I just met her. Slow down, besides this doesn't even involve you.0
Most Helpful Girl
Oh my goodness! How incredibly awkward! I'd say that the most important thing to do is if you have a chance, let the person know you are not interested (the person setting you up). I would have a conversation with them and let you know how uncomfortable you feel about being put on the spot like that. Make sure they know this. Hopefully they won't do this again!
If someone keeps pushing to have you set up, then tell them respectfully to stop and that they are being too pushy. Hopefully they understand. But if they don't then I would again have a serious conversation about it. If they are persistent and won't stop, then it's time to unfriend that person.
I think a lot of times when a person is trying to set you up, they are just trying to be helpful. It's good intentions, but sometimes people can be overbearing. It's okay to say no and be firm. Don't let them sucker you into something you don't want to do. You have a right to say no to something you are comfortable with.0