i want a guy who is very intelligent that i can talk with him about the israeli palestinian conflict , or about richard dawkins books or my favorite book "Wuthering Heights". i want him to like traveling and learning new culture like me. i want him to be really chill and care free not jealous at all and (preferably polygamous) and funny and like jazz and rock of the 70's. i want him tall and skinny. white or black i don't care.
my friends say that i'm picky but that i should be like this and it's my right.
Most Helpful Guy
Israeli palestinian conflict? Welcome to the year 2000s low hanging political fruit. Let me guess, you watch downton abbey and think jane austin is just SOOO the greatest? You're not cultured. You're a chick flick hipster.
Let me give you some perspective. My favorite painter is Adolf Hiremy Hirschl. You've never heard of him. Not many people have. The conversations i have with my friends involve the precession from the estruscan orders to the later doric and ionic, and i have a great many interests in symbolism and the hudson river painters. I've begun developing methods to use deep learning neural nets and FM synthesis to create predictive evolutionary algorithms based on the s&p500, and i want to backpack to Mu Cang Chai in vietnam and visit the top of the tepui plateau in Venezuela, see the view from Mount Roraima.
Does this make me cultured and impressive? of course not. Its just a braggy list of my most obscure and unrelatable interests. I've taken steps to distance myself from people, in an attempt to look superior to them. Lets take a step down to earth.
I like the glitch mob, led zeppelin, and i like the tesla roadster and the avengers movies. And i have a 10000x chance of meeting a girl with an interest in one of these than i do any of the other obscure crap that i project onto her. If she does not know about that, i can teach her, and if she's not interested, she doesn't have to be. We just have to feel comfortable together. Which i guarantee you, is YOUR biggest problem. Because if you can find a man who somehow fits that criteria, he will not be comfortable around you. He may not even like you.0
Most Helpful Girl
For somebody who really values intelligence I find it a little shocking that your grammar isn't on point. I'm not calling you dumb, I know some people care less about what they post on the internet, but I'm just saying, live up to your standards or people won't take you as seriously.
Now I do think you're being more hyper-specific than picky. You're picking very self-specific interests that is going to be difficult to find in another person unless you really want to just date yourself. All I'm saying is be open minded.
You can find a lot o intelligent guys that like 70's rock, but somebody who is going to enjoy and even be aware of all of your specific interests? That might be difficult. Besides, it's cool getting with people who have at least their own unique interests outside of yours because it opens up more areas for deeper conversation instead of a run around of:
"I like this."
"Yeah I like this too."
Hopefully this makes sense.1