My girlfriend and I are doing a "break" because she said she wasn't sure of her feelings for me. How long should I give her? We've been together for just over a month and she wants to take a break because we've been arguing a lot lately over very trivial things. She says she isn't sure of her feelings anymore. Instead of communicating and talking things out like a successful couple would do... she will get mad and shut me out. She is 16 so she's still kinda childish at times. I am 18. How long should I wait for her to figure us out?
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Let Her Go. Because you two are not going to stop. You two are still going to argue over stupidity because you are dealing with a childish and immature young woman. What do you expect? You both are not right for each other. And I believe the constant arguments all in just a month is pretty ridiculous. It is not healthy and you know it. Push the feelings aside and rationally. Ask yourself: Do you really want to have a relationship with a person who is childish, immature, and apparently likes to argue to get her way? She thinks the ball is in her court, and it shouldn't be when she acts like that.
My advice, break up and move on while you still can. Or else your going to go back to miss I gotta have my way. She knows exactly how she feels. She doesn't need a break. She just want to feel entitled to the arguments you both had to make you feel bad about yourself. That's what immature girl's do. And you better hope that she isn't thinking about cheating as well while on this break. At this point what are you going to do? Stay and have tolerance of her? Or are you going to move on?0