Do you think they'll just want you for your money?
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I have kids, I love them like crazy.
Kids are a really big deal. They radically change your lifestyle.
Dating someone with kids? They have way different time constraints. On top of that, either you casually hook up with them quietly... or you end up dating seriously and being around their kids. It's hard to do the middle ground.
Tons of people don't want kids, those that do typically want their own, and they also don't want to get involved, bond with kids, then break up and have them AND the kids upset and never see them again.
My kids are the most important thing in my life, but I absolutely think it's normal for people to not want to date those with kids, especially when young.1