Before i say anything i do realise that at some point you gotta show some signs of interest or else it will fail.
Iam naturally the kind of person who doesn't really go out of his way to say hi or approach others unless iam really in the mood, super happy or iam gaining something from it, some guys like to say hi left and right i dont...
i've noticed through try and error that no matter how hot or smart a girl is ignore her long enough and act like you dont notice when she's around and she will (after a certain amount of time that differs from girl to girl) do her best to get a reaction out of you and talk to you, some will do more and actually give you a number or something , but talking to you is always guaranteed.
me as a guy, if i feel a girl is even slightly stuck up or she ignoers me i won't talk to her again until she talks to me , and from experience most guys would do the same, guys dont care, girls , if ignored long enough will do their best to get the guys attention especially if they find him good looking.
do you agree? I have many exammples but iam interested in yours.
Most Helpful Girl
Here's what I think. Women (and I'm sure a lot of guys might feel this way too) can't stand slobbering puppy-dog guys who shower them with smothering attention. If a guy comes on too strong and is always being available to be walked all over, a woman will think the fun in the chase is over. It's a bit of a thrill to be batting back and forth the signals that lets the other person know you're interested.
Outright ignoring isn't so cool. But showing some signs and then allowing the girl to digest what you've said or done to see how she reacts is part of the fun.
I know guys complain all the time, "I do this, I do that, I open doors, I crawl across hot coals!! They never talk to me!!" It's because trying to hard is a bit uncool and women love the cool, secure types. If a guy doesn't seem like he needs much to feel confident and happy who he is, the more attractive. But if he adds to that a little flirtatious look or remark, then backs off (without ignoring), then he'll probably find he'll have more luck attracting women.4
Most Helpful Guy
I would have to slightly disagree. It's not just flat out ignoring a girl--then she'll think you're not interested, or find a guy who talks to her.
Push pull is the key. Sometimes you're interested. Somethings you pay her no mind. Far more effective than just being sweet to a girl or totally ignoring her.3