So this guy (I've lowkey liked for years but never really talked to) asked me out last week. We'd been joking around and he was fake complaining that his friends told him he didn't have any game and then he asked me to go on a date with him. I told him that I couldn't tell if he was serious or not and he said he sorta was. I asked him if it was just to prove a point to his friends and he said yes but it wouldn't have to end after the point was made. I told him that he's really cute and likable but I'm not going on a date as a bet. He said he understood but I wouldn't be able to say no forever. We've been talking since then and most of the time I think he's into me (he got a little bit jealous when I told him about a waiter hitting on me and he also told me I'm really cute), but sometimes he seems uninterested and it really throws me off. My friends think he's into me but he's trying to play it cool. I basically told him I like him so I don't know why he'd do that. He's a really great guy and he usually has a ton of confidence. So do you think he actually likes me or is just playing around? I like him but I've been badly hurt before and I don't want to deal with that again.
Did he ask me out because of the bet? or because it was me?
What Guys Said 4
I think the bet gave him the final amount of confidence or drive he needed to ask you out. I agree, his friends and this bet is making things really messy. I would tell him you are interested, but he needs to ask you out genuinely, and not because of pressure from a bet. Tell him to ask you again in a week or two.0
the bet was just what he needed to have the courage to go see you. Who knows, he might have been the one suggesting the bet. If his friends made the bet, why did they do it with you? He must have been talking about you before the bet. "You keep talking about her, I bet you 20$ you don't have the balls to talk to her!"0
He probably does. After all, if he's that confident then he's good enough to simply find someone else. Why would he insist on you?0
What Girls Said 1
He is doing it for both reasons.
If I were you, I wouldn't date him due to the fact that he only approached me as a part of the bet. But that's just me.0
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