After nearly a year of having roughly 1 or more online dates per week, my self-esteem has been ruined. I'm pretty convinced I'm ugly now and have no "game" as many like to put it.
Anyone feel the same way?
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Don't be so hard on yourself man. At least give yourself credit for trying and learning despite no actual success. Failure and rejection is difficult to take, have you ever seeked help and advice and try different methods after so many dates? If you're doing exactly the same thing each and every single time every single date, then there should be no surprise why it isn't working because those methods you had previously used at the very beginning had never even worked in the first place.
It will take time, but if you become single chronically and long enough you may completely stop caring all about it and give it all up altogether. Besides, relationships are not guaranteed to last forever and neither will they ever guarantee any sort of real happiness. That part is entirely all on you and is completely your responsibility.
Have you ever considered the possibility that you may never end up in any relationships at all over the course of your lifetime? And if you did, then what would you then do? What exactly then are you willing to do?0