I recently went on a date with this girl, the date went great! Until the bill came... usually when I go out with someone for the first time I always ask to go Dutch. Well this time when I said it, her face turned to shock and almost disgust! When I asked what's wrong she replied saying that the guy should have to pay for the meal. I told her that I think we should split it. And she literally opened her purse and slammed the money on the table and stormed out. I haven't seen/spoke to her since. Am I in the wrong?
Most Helpful Girl
I think that it should be. On our first real date, I paid for most of the meal (paying for mine and half my boyfriend's too) but that was just because I'd recommended the place and he didn't like it so I felt bad :P If I hadn't felt bad, we would have split it equally with each just paying for what they had because ehh, making him pay it all would be very unfair. Now, we either just pay for what we each had or one of us will pay the whole bill and the other will pay next time and it evens itself out.4
Most Helpful Guy
Pay your own way? Yes.
Going dutch is a FANTASTIC!! way to weed out the low quality women who have ZERO respect for the men they date, the entitled princesses, the user's, gold diggers, the children who want a "daddy," and the generally shitty women who have a problem being a decent human being.
You 100% did the right thing, it's her who is in the wrong so don;t sweat it and count your self lucky that you avoided getting entangled with such a monster! Imagine actually being married to someone like that? /scary shit6