I met my bf's buddy, for a 2nd time who also speaks Russian like me. We were all drinking and he was touchy feely, was trying to help me make dinner, played my favorite song, and at one point made a joke to get rid of my boyfriend in front of my boyfriend, then tried to drag me to his room? My boyfriend later told me that his buddy is never clean shaven or dressed up, but that he was the night I came over... I do like this guy and we talk quite a bit, but does he want more than sex?
Most Helpful Guy
if pulling you away is as simple as playing your fav song and showing interest, then the bond between you and boyfriend aren't so good is it? Vlad, er a... the buddy is being bad. need to block him and focus on the guy you chose and work that out. then decide if move on. one at a time.
if the boyfriend did this to you you would be really upset.
drinking is really the source of the problem here where boundaries and social rules are not accepted. This is one of the reasons Jewish men don't take their wives in public and Muslim men cover their wives in total black. So, need to realize that this is bad behavior and learn some social accepted norms. Underneath all this is emotional junk, you know that, and that needs worked out so it isn't in charge.2
Most Helpful Girl
Yes... He Wants to also Back Stab his Bud, which is your Boyfriend.
Tell your Hunny, it's not Funny, you would Rather Not Entertain them Both as a Threesome anymore. Don't tell him Why, even if you have to Tell a little White Russian Lie, but just Explain in a Tame Voice, he is Not your Cup of Tea and you would Prefer it to be just "Him and Her."
If it Continues, you will End up Jeopardizing your own Relationship in this Triangle Threesome.
Good luck and Steer Clear, dear. xx