How to suggest going dutch before a date?

Hi everyone,

Last week I went on a date with a girl and it seemed to go real well. We really hit it off and all and we spent the evening at a local seafood restaurant. Here's the problem, she gave me her number without me asking and texted me the next day saying that she actually had a boyfriend. Essentially she used me for a free meal.

I have another date with a girl I met on okcupid, scheduled for Sunday but I just don't think it's a good idea to pay for random girls' food anymore because I don't want to waste money and get stuck in this sort of humiliating situation again.

How do I suggest to this girl that we are going dutch without coming across as a jerk but also without coming across as an ass kisser?

Any thoughts?
How to suggest going dutch before a date?
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