I have had one serious relationship but that was 6 years ago and have been single since.
I have a bunch of hobbies, I am ok with having lone time that I go to conventions alone and concerts, and made a bunch of great friends in these past 6 years.
I have dated here and there and been close to a relationship 3 times but never worked out for whatever reason.
Is there something wrong with me or with what I am doing? Is being single for 6 years an indicator there is something wrong with me? Maybe im not great looking?
Most Helpful Guy
I used to work at Walmart, so whenever management was nice enough to schedule me to work I saw dozens of unattractive people, men and women, with significant others. In fact, it boosted my confidence because while I'm not the most attractive dude on the planet, at least I did not look like some of them.
I personally think that there's something everybody can do to make themselves more appealing if they wanted to. Going to a gym and exercising, styling your hair, shaving. . . or if you like the mustache, buy some mustache wax and give it a nice style. When I started styling my hair and wearing deodorant, I noticed more women glancing my direction than before when I just didn't care so much about my appearance. Even if they weren't looking directly at me, at least they weren't turning their heads to get away from me.
Putting in the effort always gets you some results in my experience.0
Most Helpful Girl
First all if that's you in your profile picture, you are good looking. Second there is a mate for everyone out there. What might be ugly to you might be beautiful to another man which is why you see woman you might perceive as being ugly. There is someone out there for you. Just make sure you are not focusing on just physical beauty. What makes a woman truly beautiful is who she is. Of course you have to have some attraction but there could be someone you wouldn't look twice at that will be the one that makes you the happiest. Women like a man to really listen and understand where she is coming from. They like a man that can be funny and make them feel beautiful. Really pay attention to her and be 100% yourself. One more thing. In order to make it work you have to be able to learn and grow with her. Both of you will have to change in some way to make each other happy. Compromise but still be true to yourself. You are lovable I promise. :)0