I've been dating this guy going on 2 months. He always wants to know intricate details about me, and seems to care a lot. Thing is, if I ask him questions about himself he never really elaborates. For instance, he asks how much I have in savings, how my family is doing, how work situations are, doctor's appointments, etc... but if I ask him about his daughter or background he never gets into details. We like each other a lot, and he is an introverted type of guy who likes listening, but he's very slow to open up. Does he not trust me or what? What can I do to get him to open up?
Why is he not open with me?
What Guys Said 1
He needs time or may be he confused about ur relationship or may be not confident0
What Girls Said 2
If he is an introverted person, it's possible he doesn't think you will find his situations interesting. I would try reassuring him that you find him interesting and want to know more about him :)
Be nice about it, and hopefully he will open up. I don't think it's that he doesn't trust you. But maybe he's scared that you won't like all the details he has to share. I would just be supportive and reassure him that you are there for him no matter what.0
Maybe that's just how he is. Some people are naturally more private and they prefer listening rather than talking.0
Select as Most Helpful Opinion?
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.