Everyday. Before work (at 5am) and after work (a few bowls a night). I am not anti-weed, by any means. I think it's a great addition to any party. But it's beginning to feel like too much. He says he won't stop (or even cut down) if we have kids someday. Is this a dealbreaker?
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah he has to go and the sooner the better. And I'm not just being so some uptight prick because I smoked my fair share of weed about 36 years ago. There comes a point when one has to grow up and apparently your boyfriend is nowhere near that and won't be for a long time. To make matters worse smoking weed now is a lot more expensive than when I was a kid so the money that he should be saving for things like retirement or a home or for a future marriage and kids is being burned every night in a joint or a bong or a bowl. You deserve better and you deserve it now.1
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah, my best friend became like that and we just aren't really friends anymore, for more reasons than that but it played a huge part. I don't have a huge problem with weed, but people who need it to get through the day. Do what you want, but we just can't be friends. People who do it at that extent just aren't the people I want to hang out with. My SO smokes a decent amount which I don't love but I have no business telling him he can't, just please don't be high when I come over or do it around me unless we agree to it. I think he's being kind of selfish to you. If smoking bothers you and he knows it, he should be respectable and take into consideration what you're saying. I think he needs an ultimatum. If not, he needs to go. Because he doesn't care about his potential children enough to give up something like that, or even cut back.1