okay, so I'm going to meet my boyfriends family and I'm not the most outgoing social person so im just kind of dreading it he has 3 brother who all also have girlfriends which are all pretty close already so I feel like I'm just going to be coming in as an outsider now to tell you the honest truth I could care less about fitting in with these girls or being even friends with them but I know my boyfriend does so I literally don't know what to do anybody's have anybody tips?
Most Helpful Guy
Wait so he's verbally expressed he really wants this?
I never got this. When it comes to getting along with people you can't force it. Especially with women. It's always a disaster when guys try to make their wives be friends with their buddy's wives.
My advice, don't force it. I mean be polite but don't try forcing a connection.1
Most Helpful Girl
All you need to do is act gentle towards them and show them interest. Nothing else is really required.1