Being black man in America is hard for me. I never get girlfriend in my life. Am I ugly? Could I being single alone forever until move to foreign country? America don't like black men. I'm not talking about sex, I'm talking about lover or being in relationship.
Most Helpful Girl
First, are you from another country originally? Curious...
But this is clearly not true though, and you should know this. I've known a lot of women who are into black guys. Not every woman is into black guys, and it is true that many women aren't, but many women are.
I'm assuming you're trying to date non-black women, because this question wouldn't make sense otherwise. I'm black, and although I'm not into black guys personally, I literally have always had some non-black friends who love black men. Alwaaayyyss.
You might not be in the right state or city. Move to any major city with a lot of diversity and I think you will have a lot of options, if you're an attractive person overall. Now, if you have low self-esteem, approaching women and not being overwhelmed by any little rejection, will be harder. That kind of overwhelming insecurity and lack of self-worth comes out in a myriad of unattractive ways. So you should really work on loving yourself as well, for both yourself and your future girlfriend.
I can relate to feeling less popular, in terms of "your group." Black women are often viewed as the least attractive, as a group anyway, and I don't think we are as desired as black men are. But that doesn't dull my shine ever, and I can't really afford to waste time caring about that. Neither can you. Life is amazing, so go out and live it. Focus on your own improvement and development, so you can be a better partner, and if you need to move to a more diverse area, make plans. It can be an adventure!
Moving to a foreign country isn't that easy, but I will say that white European guys were more forward in approaching me and open, when I lived there, than American white guys are in many areas. (Obviously Europe is not a country, but you know what I mean lol) Although, I did notice that a lot of American white guys I would meet abroad seemed to like me. Maybe it's just needing a common experience to connect with someone and cross those racial boundaries? Race relations in different areas are always interesting to observe.
Anyway, chill the fuck out.0
Most Helpful Guy
I've seen some white girls that pretty much only date black guys. Not true. Maybe you are in a place where it is difficult.
As you thinkith... so you are. If that's you, you aren't ugly... and to be honest.. girls don't care so much about looks so forget about that. that isn't the issue. What you think, your confidence, social skills, approach, how interesting you are to talk to, if you can emotionally connect with women... those would be some areas where theere may be challenges.
Now that said... if you are in a place where it is all white girls and they don't like black guys... then maybe time to find a new place.0