Hello! I am a 35 year old single mother of two wonderful kiddos. I have a full time professional career & I am also a part time fitness model. I am financially secure & I also have a fun, geeky side. I like to play MMO's, I collect comics & I am a huge Sci Fi Fan. I enjoy lifting but also love being active outdoors. Lol now that I've written something that sounds like a dating profile I'll get to my question. How can I come off as more approachable to nice guys? I feel like every guy that I approach says "you're too good for me" or "I feel like you're out of my league". I'm not out of anyone's league. I'm a very humble person & have my fair share of faults as everyone else. I am faithful to the end & I have a good reputation. I am tired of only being approached by egotistical, arrogant jerks. I'm not interested in that type but that seems to be the only type that are open to dating me. My question is what can I do to get a nice guy to be open to dating me. I'm 35 & I would like to find someone to grow old with but I want it to be someone that will treat me as well as I'll treat them. Thank you in advance! :-)
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Often times, the more beautiful the girl, the bigger the douchebag that will be approaching her, it's cause they seem to have no fear of rejection because to them, you are just a number anyway. you'll say no, and they'll move on to the girl next to you and forget they even approached you. The nicer, more caring guys often think you're so beautiful that you are out of their league, so they don't even bother, cause they do actually care if they get rejected. Plus they tend to be more shy and approaching anyone let alone a beauty like youresef is not comfortable for them.
My suggestion would be to try doing the approaching yourself! don't just wait for the perfect guy to approach you, cause that my not happen as evidence of your string of bad luck with the type of guys that approach you.
And i realize I said approach about 3500 times 😳4
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