I've been with my boyfriend for 4+ years (with some breaks in between) and we have a child together. He has a female "best friend". I've been known to be a jealous girlfriend before and when I found out about her I lost it. I am supposed to be his best friend, not her. In my defence I only found out about her after we moved in together. I gave him an ultimatum (it was wrong, I know) but he still kept talking to her behind my back. She's a nudie model and calls it "art". I accidentally found out he's been looking up nude images of her. I even suspect he was having a wank while doing so. I have this constant, nagging feeling that he has this unrequited pathetic crush on her (she's been in a commited relationship with a guy for 10 years or so). Obviously he denies it (why would he admit to it?). He calls me immature and insecure whenever I mention it. Am I really being insecure or is he just settling with me because he can't have her?
Insecurity or intuition?
What Guys Said 1
See where jealousy leads you, down the rabbit hole. Its just going to keep getting worse for you the more you worry about it.
This guy is clearly taking things a little too far checking out his friend naked and having a little fantasy about it while not the best idea is probably all it really it is.
I would stop worrying about it and let the cards fall where they may. You will be much happier.0
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