Can you ever reconnect at the right time? How?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes i believe it can happen but I could never reconnect to year later.2
Most Helpful Girl
I think so. When I was 18 a feel madly in love with a guy, but the thing for me is, for some reason, relationships scare me. I'm happy to be friends with benefits, that way you get happy medium but I haven't wanted to be in a relationship yet. ( I was in a long distance relationship for 8 months but that never really felt like a relationship)
With him, we could never have been just friends with benefits. I already had feelings for him. I did think would get together at the "right" if there was one though. We were friends for a while but it got really complicated and we stopped talking.
Shortly after that, he went off to university and I met someone else, again who I was just friends with benefits with and I got pregnant with my daughter. When I decided to have her, I remember thinking how it was the final nail in the coffin of this other guy and I, and that it wouldn't happen after all, and me getting pregnant by my daughter's dad was another sign that he wasn't the guy for me after all.
My daughter will be two soon and I hadn't seen this other guys for a long, time and I pretty recently started to develop feelings for my daughter's dad. Feelings I hadn't had for him before, and feelings I hadn't had since I was 18. He and I won't ever be together though because his feelings just aren't there for me and that's Ok.
Around about the same time I started to realise those feelings, I started seeing this guy that I'd been so crazy about around again, and we actually had coffee together the other day. We didn't arrange it, we just ran into each other and it was like no time had passed.
I'm not going to hope that we'll end up together. There aren't many guys who want to be with a single mother and it may be too much for him. I'm also not going to assume he still likes me in any way... but I just cannot shake the feeling that it's not over. So we'll see.1