He is a good friend of my parents, and he used to look after me when I was a kid. Since I moved into my dorm, I had more time to go and visit him. I was supposed to only go and visit him. But we apparently talked for hours, wich felt like 10 minutes, so I missed my train and had to stay over. Nothing happened by the way. I slept on the couch and he slept in his room. For two days straight we kept watching documentaries, talked about spirituality and cookd together. He even taught me 'i tching'. I don't know, I am just attracted to him as a human being. He is so mature, and life educated, etc. While I am totally the opposite: naive, emotional, too ambitious, etc. Like any girl my age.
Why is this happening to me?
I just can't bring myself to like guys my age. I always compare them to him. Guys my age are sooo selfish, play mind games, jealousy always comes in, know nothing about the world and only have boxes on their head. I am not intending on following my heart here, but it's very hard. Please give me some advice...
Most Helpful Guy
You have an emotional connection. That feels good. Guys your age are probably.. immature. I hear this from girls a lot..., not necessarily for 60 yr olds, but for older guys.
so when you are 40 he will be 80! Why don't you call up Hugh Hefners wife... that seems to be working on. I don't know what to tell you honestly, it is a big age gap, there are more mature guys probably younger. Attraction is sub conscious and you are drawn to him because he is familiar... that is the bond...
Most Helpful Girl
I think you just like him because you know him from childhood. I liked a guy for eight years, but I only liked him because he was a family friends son and we went to church together and school and saw each other a lot. You bond with them when you get to know them. Like you said, you are young. Get to know more guys your age. See yourself as an equal with them.0