He chose another girl above me because i didn't have a 'fun social life'. She did and he picked her. The girl is uglier then me but not to be rude how could he pick her? If he cared about me he could have taught me to be social right?
Most Helpful Guy
well, true, if you love someone and are committed you will help them to grow. but you can't change someone. he may have had someone more compatible at the time so went with "less effort".
people are attracted to different things, maybe you were more pretty, or whatever, but attraction is deeper than that... often anyways.
What did you learn about yourself... that is what is importnat, not him.1
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah , unfortunately some guys only want popularity ! In all honesty it disgusts me how awful and ridiculous that is my best guess is that you are going either through college or high school ! And honestly if that is the case he will notice your value when he marries. Believe me I was the most popular girl in high school and had always a crowd around me once everyone graduated things changed and everyone gone ahead to make their own life and people even moved out of state to live in a dorm including me so in all honesty a social circle is not that important because right now I am 18 and going through college and I fell in love with a guy out of my own town and had to start friendships all over again and I am preparing to have kids and during the day I take care of the house... So I just hang out once in a while and a relationship should always be about you and him not a conquest to see a little friend list !1