i have a boyfriend who loves me (i think) and i too, loves him a lot a lot. however, i do not look good (with acne scars and really ugly features) hence, i feel not good enough for him. i have really serious trust issues due to my insecurities. my boyfriend plays this online social game where he gets to chat with people in an open chat room. and coincidentally, we met on that chat room. (its for friendly chats as well but we ended up going out) we've been together for a month and these days, i find myself obsessively stalking him whenever he's taking longer than usual to reply my texts. these days, whenever he takes more than 30 mins to reply my text, I'll go onto that chatroom with another account to find him talking to this one girl. he has been talking to this girl a lot these days and im getting jealous. my doubts and jealousy are driving me crazy. for instance this morning (he usually calls me before i go to sleep and then return to sleep), he called me but unlike usual, he said he has to hang up earlier as he's tired and want to sleep. after he hung up, i immediately went to the chatroom but he wasn't there. a few days ago, he was taking around 10 minutes to reply each of my text and i stalked him to find him talking to the girl. i was really angry and went to sleep without telling him. normally if i do this, ill wake up with lots of texts from him asking where i am. however, the next morning i woke up with no texts. i really dont know what to do. and if we met through this chatroom, he can meet another girl as well right? furthermore, these days I've been busy with school and can't meet him. will he leave me for another girl? what do i do?
Most Helpful Guy
No idea... But I know for a fact that insecurities and jealousy can push a guy away, even if he does love you. Work on that, and try to forget about that girl0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you definitely need to be more trustworthy. Trust is super important in a healthy relationship. If you are happy in the relationship and you feel loved and like everything is in the right place, then you have nothing to worry about. If you feel like he is the type of person who could cheat on you, and you don't feel like the relationship is right, then maybe you could try to sit down with him and figure it all out. Either way, I'm sure you'll do what you feel is right. good luck :) and send updates!0