Do good-looking guys ever go for "average" (how I see myself) looking girls? I'm the typical girl which receives the "How are you single?" "You're so pretty" "Such a great personality! The whole package" compliments, also where numerous guys would date me and find me attractive buuut, a lot of them aren't the guys I want?
I really really don't want to sound like a bitch or vain but I want a good-looking guy which I could be extremely proud of to show others. The previous guys I've dated weren't bad looking but they weren't what you would call hot, I dated them because of their charm or flirty-ness (Ended up getting cheated on which wasn't a surprise because they worked the same charm on other girls).
I've been single for a while now because I told myself not to settle for anything less because I've always wanted a hot/good-looking guy, and also because I'm kinda scared to love again.
I'm so sorry if I come off as a mean person for asking this ><
If it makes this easier to answer, I live in Hong Kong but I'm Spanish/Filipino mixed, tan, pretty fit, 18, love adventures and I"m 5'5. I'm going to Australia/US for university in a few months and maybe I'll be able to meet someone there? Would the guys there be attracted to me? If I'm even something compared to all the beautiful girls there.
Also, if any girls have experiences of getting good-looking guys while not being as good looking, please let me know!! I wanna see if this is actually possible and not just me day-dreaming.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes it is possible to date "up your league", but I think that specifically wanting to date someone hotter than you is hypocritical and it's just gonna end in bad relationships. I know a couple of guys like you that are average at best but still want to date hot girls and yeah they really aren't very successful in the dating department. I mean even if you do find a guy like that they will most likely have a bad personality, or just not be that great in other ways. If that is what you want then go for it but it is not gonna end well.1
Most Helpful Girl
funny update lol
I'll just say this, If you are only focused on guys to impress your friends with you may miss out on the really great guys of the world.1