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I am 29 and I don't necessarily "like" or prefer older guys, but I had an affair with a 39/40 year old. 10 years isn't that huge of a deal. I'm in a mutual wanna-be-more-than-friends relationship with a soon to be 45 year old now. He's mature and has a very firm grip on life. My rule is as long as he's younger than my dad, then I'll go for it. And if I do become involved romantically with the 45yro, I will not introduce him to my family until we are stable and have been dating for like 5 years lol bc my family is judgmental, and even more so with the fact that he's a different race. On the plus side, he still looks like he's in his 30s (everyone is shocked when they find out his real age. I know I was lol) and is in great shape.
But honestly, I feel like older guys are more understanding & mature for the most part, and know what they want, as opposed to men in my age bracket...