I have been seeing the same guy causally for a long time now, he's not my boyfriend but he's more than a fuck-buddy. We're never going to end up dating because it's just not how we are but thats not the point.. this weekend I had ended up hooking up (making out only) with another guy, and I don't know if I should tell the guy I see about this because I know he's going to find out through mutual friends.. should I tell him before he finds out to be polite?
Most Helpful Guy
Even though you're not officially in a relationship, you probably have some feelings for each other. I think you should tell him because he'd deserve to know despite the fact that you talked about commitment. It may bite you in the ass later if you don't tell him. Who knows, maybe you'll be official one day.0
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't say anything at this point. For one he's not your boyfriend so it's not like you're obligated to be only with him. All you did so far with this other guy was make out. You don't know where this is going to go if anywhere at this point. Why spoil a good fuck and have things crash and burn with the new guy? Besides who says until you commit to one you can't have both?