And has no life? Whereas someone who is busy often does have a life and is this more valuable to date?
being busy is attractive in other words?
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Interesting that you Noticed that. It does indeed seem to make a difference whether that is subconscious or a conscious decision, I'm not sure
It could be for a few reasons, Someone more busy has less 'free' time. That free time is now more valuable as oppose to him/her. Valuable in this world means other want to share a piece of that pie (mmmm pie)
Seeing someone busy is an indication that they have successfully been able to create connections and relationships. This seems interesting and attractive because at the end of the day, isn't our whole life really just free time that is shared with others. The more the merrier the expression goes
It can also indicated progression in one's life. When you attend events and do stuff you are adding to your experience portfolio. This can create a more rich character with greater depth. More to share and more to talk about
But without all the heavy details, it simply projects a likable personable character... since others seem to like you, it must be for a reason and I want in on that too.. It's quite similar to the situation - when walking with a girl, more girls notice you... or when going out with a group of girls, more random girls are willing to put their guards down. Take 2 guys at a bar walking around, it can be 'creepy'... take the same 2 guys walking around with 3 girls, not so much anymore