My parents basically dont want me dating. They are extremely negative and always think the worst about everyone especially guys. They say things like "he's up to no good" "how do you know thats his real name" and "hes probably married"
I met someone a few months ago & we decided to be together. My parents seriously told me to take a picture of his ID card so they can do a background check on him. I declined and my dad has threatened to look at my phone records to get his number and read our conversations -_- its possible since we have a family plan
I am 23 and they are making me very unhappy and violent. The guy im seeing wants me to stay with him since my parents are making it impossible for us to see each other any other way.
They are trying to plan my life out for me and control who I spend time with, they told me there's no point in talking to my boyfriend because we are never living in that state again. Its like theyre saying I can't move out of state if I want.
Is this normal for parents to do?
Do you recommend I leave before something bad happens?
Let me know your opinions
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think that's normal unless your Pakistani or Isis or something like that. especial at your age. they can not like him till the cows come home but you're an adult and free to make your own choices. then them wanting to stalk him and stuff is creepy. my mom always gave me her opinion but then just let it be. I had my first child at 21. your parents are too protective0