Would you move on or see where it goes?

Been seeing a guy for about two months. Things were fine in the beginning, like they usually are. Lately I feel like we can never make plans to see each other. We both work a lot of crazy hours and he has his daughter every other weekend. I don't want to impose on their time together.

I feel like with a lot of the guys I've dated I end up feeling like the "dude" in the relationship. I have to be the one to try and set things up. I can say "hey, I have off the bext three days..." and I get nothing. Then as soon as I go back to work, its "oh, I'm going to be out your way today..."

I do like this guy but I feel like he is either not that interested, too busy, or a combo of both. I feel like he would ve reaching out more to see me even if it was just for coffee.

What do you think?


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What Guys Said 1

  • I know busy. If he likes you, he will do anything to spend time with you.

    • Sort of what I figured :(

What Girls Said 1

  • I'd move on if I were you.