Wanted to see if she wants to grab coffee, so I can sit and talk with her for a bit. Convo went like this
Me- "Hey, are you free anytime soon? I would like to grab coffee and chat"
Her- "Hey! I'll have to get back to you on it. Taking 7 classes this semester on top of working the two jobs and getting stuck babysitting this weekend has been filling up my schedule."
Me - "No worries. I just figured that we should meet up soon"
Her - "Definitely!"
I guess what I really am asking is if I should follow up with something like (on the off chance that she is genuinely busy, and couldn't figure an opening)
"Hey, did you have a chance to figure out when you might be free?"
"Hey, I'm free tomorrow if you want to meet up for a bit?"
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No you shouldn't follow up now.
This is what I do when I'm not interested in a guy and letting him down.
There's no freaking way she cannot make 30mins-1hour coffee time to see you when she likes you wants to get to know you more.
I was in the exact same situation with this guy, I told him I was too occupied that I couldn't really see him. In the beginning simply I wasn't interested in him so I didn't bother making time for him. But then he would constantly keep asking when I would be available and that just turned me off. I told him blunt out that I couldn't do it.
If she was interested, she would have asked 'when' do you want to meet her. Or suggested you 'when' she's available.
She mentioned her 7 classes this semester. (not this week, this semester. She trying to imply that she will be freaking occupied this whole semester studying not only this week.) working two jobs. and babysitting this weekend.
To me it sounds like she's not that interested. If she's interested she would have said I'm too busy this week so next week would be better.
But everyone's different. She could be simply too busy this week and just want you to ask her again next week.
Ask her LATER THIS WEEK again not now.
and use "Hey, did you have a chance to figure out when you might be free?" NOT "Hey, I'm free tomorrow if you want to meet up for a bit?".
bc she most likely gonna say she won't be free tomorrow bc she already told you that she'll be busy.
If she wants to see you, she will let you know when she will be free. If she still doesn't know, still be busy, she's not interested.0