Hi should I allow myself to be tied up when he wants to tie me?
Have you been tied up?
Is it a good thing cos it means I belong?
Or a bad thing cos I'm being controlled?
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It's neither a good or bad thing; people have kinks, some like being tied up, because it gives them the feeling of letting go of the reins they have in life, which may relieve some. Their partners may enjoy the feeling of control this gives them.
Don't do anything you don't enjoy. There's no right or wrong, only what you want and don't want. If you find it exciting to be tied up, by all means. If you don't, make it clear to your partner.0