So me and this guy have been talking for a few months now and he asked me if he wanted to have a Skype session. We did and it was very awkward, we didn't have a lot to say and we quite most of the time. We were only talking for maybe 20 minutes and he hasn't messaged me for a good day. Usually he messages me once or twice everyday but now Im stressing out and paranoid. I knew it was going to be awkward for the first time but now I feel like I have left a bad impression. He rarely messages me anyway so I thought he wasn't interested, but then he asked to call so I thought he was just a bad texter?
Im not sure if I should wait a bit longer or just dont bother messaging him? Feel like I screwed up 3 months worth of bonding in a matter of 20 minutes.. Im scared to message him because I dont want to seem clingy, help!
Most Helpful Guy
I feel in this situation it'll be more awkward the longer you wait. Don't worry if he truly liked you one awkward conversation wouldn't kill 3 months of hard work haha. Go for broke and message him. I think you'll find you're over analyzing this. Also, don't forget a conversation is a two way street. He also was being awkward, not just you. Don't take full ownership on this ya goof.0
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Most Helpful Girl
From where I am Sitting, it Seems that not only 'Feel like I screwed up 3 months worth of bonding in a matter of 20 minutes,' But.. Wasted 3 months of your Life that you Can't get back.
If you Both are Having an Issue with Skype, what Makes you think the Voice on the Other end will be any different on the Cell?
I am not Sure what his Problem might be, but he Doesn't sound like Anyone, hun, who is Really a lot Of... Fun.
Let him Call you. See what Happens or If he does. He doesn't Appear as though he is Into Texting nor Talking nor Skype.
Good luck. xx1