I'm actually more after the good and perhaps some happy endings to restore my faith again!
But equally love top hear the bad or the funny!
My friend persuaded me on POF then I tried match.
I've met up with some nice and genuine people that it was just a no with but we had a nice night. Just recently however, it has not been so and it has been people who thankfully I am finding out quickly there would be some issues there!
Like the guy started banging on at me about things like the amount of sugar in the 250mls of organic cold pressed apple juice I like each day and sending me articles to try and prove to me why I'm being unhealthy and why I should stop... (I'm a healthy weight I eat healthy too and often hike 4 times a week equating to usually 25 miles) Also a very negative response when I didn't jump at the last minute to meet him a couple days after we first met and I was already busy doing my own thing. And wanted me to text him each time I got home so he knew I was home... He got a right hump on! Whaooo that was a bit much, you litterally just said hi on a dating site to me less than 2 weeks ago?
So many people actually come accross as nut jobs... like the ones that repeated message again and again if you don't always respond quickly (I'm not even logged in?)
So please, I hope you have some nice stories to share? Or shall I knock it on the head?
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Online dating is the best possible way to date! It opens you up to a huge group of people for whom you'd normally never even speak with. For example, I'm able to purposely seek out working-class women or African American women or extremely man-hating liberal women or even nutty, quick-triggered conservative women.
The thing is, if you're meeting a lot of nuts, then you're probably attracted to a certain profile type. And that's totally ok -- everyone does that. But given that it's online dating, maybe you should try responding to a guy that you don't find particularly attractive at first glance? I mean, you're a woman so you're no doubt getting tons of requests on these dating sites (this is just how it works) so loosen your filter and open your mind a little. It may still not work out, but that's natural. I would like to think that there are a large group of women that I find attractive and maybe even would want to have sex with, but a very, very tiny group that I really want to spend a lot of time with. The fact that dating is hard, seems about right to me otherwise we'd just marry people at random.1