There's this girl that's been hanging around my boyfriend a lot lately. She's actually a friends with benifiets of one of his friends. In the last few weeks my boyfriend has been messaging her a lot and talking to this girl about my relationship to him. I find out today that he's asking her 'when's the next time they're going to hang' and he's saying 'asap' . I don't think he's the type to cheat but I don't trust the girl and I've told my boyfriend that I'm not crazy about him hang out with her. I'm thinking he must have told her I said that because now she likes everything he puts on Facebook. I don't want to be that girlfriend that says he can't be friend with this girl but it really bothers me. What do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
He is out of line! He needs to stop that crap. If not, you can figure he is disrespecting you and likely will do something with her.0
Most Helpful Girl
Guy-Girl friendships are always dangerous, there's eventually going to be tension, especially since they know it's not right, "forbidden fruit" and all that. He probably also likes the attention she's giving him.
+She obviously wants him to dump you. You could be the sneaky bossy girlfriend and tell him he should hang out with you because you're more fun, then give him the best sex he's ever had (if you're sexually active already). Repeat that everytime he plans to hang out with her and buy a lot of lingerie lol.
Or you could just drop him and save some time, tears and money, if he seems like he wants to cheat, he probably eventually will no matter what you do. Guys are jerks, sorry. :c1