When girls says "it's difficult to find someone".
It really pissess me off. How any girl can say that. I mean if you compare guys to girls we have to put in more of a effort.
If you compare how much different there is. If girl is average looking, not overweight, skinny or little chubby. She will still get hit on. but. If it's a guy, he will have to make all the moves to build, up the courage to ask a girl out. He might get hit on but it's definitely rarely- I use to be a "fat guy".
I know you're thinking "it's not that simple, we can't just ask guy out"
Well. I know how society see girl asking guys out. I would still say BS.
If a girl doesn't want to try to ask a guy out Because of 'society' or is to shy. She can always try online and I know for a fact she will definitely get guys hitting on her- I know a girl who is little overweight and she had lot of guys hitting on her-. which point girl become very picky- because of all the attention- and just chat without the attention of ever meeting the guy. They shouldn't complain "we can't find anyone" really?
sorry to rant. but I thought I had to say these.
Most Helpful Girl
You should believe it.
You know why? Because you're right. It IS easier for most women to find a guy.
But not every woman wants to settle for the dude that'll jump on her just because he has no standards and wants a lay. She wants someone who will do more than just "hit on her", she wants the dude that actually wants to talk to her, and get to know her.
Sorry Chuck but that ain't most dudes who approach you. It's nothing against guys but in my experience it's true.
I personally have no issue asking guys out, because once I like you I'm too damn impatient for you to build up the courage to do it. Be angry all you want about it but what good is that doing for you as of right now?1
Most Helpful Guy
that happens man, if a girl says its difficult to find someone, then the reasons could be, that she wants a mature kind of a guy, who's successful, you know the things she wants in a guy, so its possible that every guy she met is not her type, so that can make difficult to find a guy, because not most of the girls wants friends with benefits type of relationship with a guy, and they dont care about sex much like most of the guys do1