I see my self as an average type of guy. I have a huge crush on a girl in my class. She's probably the smartest girl in class (everyone askes her for help), she's involved with sports, volunteer work and really looking towards her future. Should I start to talk to her? I feel like if we start talking then dating I would just be holding her back.
Most Helpful Girl
So you have no aspirations? No goals for yourself? No ambitions?
Anyway!!! It's just school, it's not like you're gonna marry her right there and then... don't be crazy... but seriously, if you are already saying you'd be holding her back, it's probably because you have no desire to do something with your life... don't be a loser. Have some goals, you don't have to be Einstein to do something useful with your life. .. it bothers me that there are so many people who put no effort into learning in school and because if that they already set themselves up for failure before they even try... that EXTREMELY unattractive on anyone!! Cause it's simply stupidity. I hope your mentally changes soon enough.. and yes go talk to her. No one is better than anyone unless you make it out to be that way.0
Most Helpful Guy
you are what you decide to be. so if you're average-ya and shell prolly not be too interested since she doesn't sound average. so first things first-quit that, believe you're special, you're the shit, you're nature's greatest miracle (okay too far, but you get the point) THEN approach her... you believe it? so will she
you think you're lame and boring, so will she. it really is that simple. you're only as average as you think you are.0