I saw the guy I'm dating last night. We made plans to cuddle up with eachotber but ended up just watching a moving in his living room sitting like three feet apart. I myself am slightly shy so it's difficult for me to initiate but I do try. after a while I laid down with my pillow and my head on his lap. He did nothing.. He pretended I wasn't even there. then the movie ended and I climbed over him with my ass practically in his face.. and still no type of response from him what so ever. He just sits there. And when I mentioned the cuddling he just sat there and giggled. i finally just gave up and went home. And the most embarrassing part was when we were saying bye I went in to kiss him and he completely rejected me. Is he just not into me? I don't get it. I really liked the kid up until then. I think it's been enough time that even if he was respectful that it's ok to touch me. I recently told him it was okay to text me first because I thought he was just shy and never did.. and now he has been but I'm not telling him it's okay to to touch me now. He has to realize it on his own. But it makes me feel like he doesn't feel anything for me.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm assuming he's a bit younger than since you say "I really liked the kid up until then". He possibly is a gentleman, and sensed your shyness (hence why he didn't make a move.) There's also a possibility that he may not be in to you.
I had a similar situation once years ago. Long time female friend stopped by my place, and she wanted to watch a movie. We kind of snuggle on the couch. About halfway through she removes her bra from under her shirt, saying it was uncomfortable.
Two weeks later she tells me I was supposed to make a move at that point lol.2
Most Helpful Girl
He sounds like he's not interested?
Was he excited about seeing you prior to the date?
How many dates you two had before?
Usually you initiate conversation/plan first?
Is he that shy to make any move.. that's a pain ass
My guy is shy too I mostly initiate text and ask him out
But he just went for it when chances were there lol
I know how shy my guy is so if your guy is worse than mine... it's going to be a hell of work.1